I have taken the first step toward the sell/buy/move we have planned: I have rented the storage unit. I haven't put anything in it yet, but it's rented. I have also scheduled a handyman to start the yard long list of things to repair/replace before listing the Batcave for sale. So that's something.
I'm pretty overwhelmed by the amount of stuff that needs to get done. When we sold my condo, we did all the work ourselves. Nine years later, we have less time and more commitments, so we are going to hire out most of the work. It will likely cost less than marriage counseling and babysitters.